tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1595859314129335086.post3332266418114279915..comments2023-05-26T07:27:18.007-07:00Comments on What Now?: It's Okay that It's Not OkayLulu McCabehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10002084871872201948noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1595859314129335086.post-55820661375391073122011-05-31T12:47:03.115-07:002011-05-31T12:47:03.115-07:00I admire the way you handle yourself and your rela...I admire the way you handle yourself and your relationship with T. Knowing you are smart enough to hang in there as he gradually matures, inspires me to try harder to be patient with my own son. <br /><br />I wish I could give you advice on how to get better services, but we're in the same boat and I pretty much doubt they exist. <br /><br />Hugs and prayers,<br />Marymarythemomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08205319256573120866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1595859314129335086.post-37013427350718527932011-05-30T13:12:08.416-07:002011-05-30T13:12:08.416-07:00Lynne nailed it, but I wanted to say that you are ...Lynne nailed it, but I wanted to say that you are an awesome Trauma Mama and I am so glad you and T found each other. {{{Hugs}}}GB's Momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08866513131959998883noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1595859314129335086.post-16875788315523966272011-05-30T04:53:38.383-07:002011-05-30T04:53:38.383-07:00Lulu, You are brilliant.
I do intensely dislike...Lulu, You are brilliant. <br /><br />I do intensely dislike the part of our system that wants juvenile justice to take over providing services to our kids. That is a fight we have also fought. In my experience, the juvenile justice system only made things worse. The services they offer do not promote healing. <br /><br />Time and commitment are both key. Weather or not T. is able to access more intensive mental health services, your commitment and time will help him. I know this to be true. <br /><br />Try not to feel badly about the people who don't get it. Stay focused on what you know is the truth. Stay committed. Somehow-everything will be ok. I believe in you and T. and I know that victory does not come without a fight.<br /><br />Hang in there, Friend.<br />LynneAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com